"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kissing on the first date?!?!

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blinkwatt

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i just wanted to see how many of you fellas kiss on the first date?pecs on the cheek?tongue?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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depends on the girl, the vibe, and how things are going. if everything is going good and you can tell she is feeling you then go in and get it. I usually just go for the lips and that usually turns into a tongue kiss.

but yea just go by the vibe.

if shes not kissin me by the end of the second date I doubt I'm gonna be callin for a third, but thats just me
 
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I always do. because for me, that is the mark where I can finally say "SHE IS MINE!"
 
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My strenghts are kino and eye contact...

So a good many of my first dates end up in bed.

But usually there's not even any touching for the first hour or 2 ... then, at some point, things just sort of happen.

It's more difficult for me to get a date than to get a gal in bed once I've got the date. Weird how having a real physical game can affect one's percentages...
 
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