"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kissing on the first date?!?!

blinkwatt

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i just wanted to see how many of you fellas kiss on the first date?pecs on the cheek?tongue?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SurfsupinHawaii

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depends on the girl, the vibe, and how things are going. if everything is going good and you can tell she is feeling you then go in and get it. I usually just go for the lips and that usually turns into a tongue kiss.

but yea just go by the vibe.

if shes not kissin me by the end of the second date I doubt I'm gonna be callin for a third, but thats just me
 

wind20mph

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I always do. because for me, that is the mark where I can finally say "SHE IS MINE!"
 

Bonhomme

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My strenghts are kino and eye contact...

So a good many of my first dates end up in bed.

But usually there's not even any touching for the first hour or 2 ... then, at some point, things just sort of happen.

It's more difficult for me to get a date than to get a gal in bed once I've got the date. Weird how having a real physical game can affect one's percentages...
 
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