jamesfromhouston
Senior Don Juan
Hey gents,
Last week I been on 2 first dates with girls I met on OLD.
Girl 1: We had a good vibe during the meet up. Laughed a lot and she was really excited the whole night. I could sort of tell she is interested in me, due to how quick she agreed to meet up with me. Throughout the whole night I was touchy and got progressively more touchy, ultimately telling her I want to kiss her. It was at that moment, she initially refused to kiss me telling me its a public place; but I said screw it, who cares. I gave a small freeze-out after the rejection and ultimately she kissed me. Then later in the night, she was touchy as well, we didn't hook up, bounced to a friends party and ultimately went home.
Girl 2: Situation was sort of same as girl 1. She was really engaged the whole night. She was also very keen to meet up. I was super touchy, rubbing her waist, back, without much resistance or hesitation from her. Finally, I went for the kiss, and she flat out did a cheek turn and covered her mouth with her hand. (This was the first time, I had received a cheek turn, I found it both funny and surprising) She told me, no right now. We ended the late without really dwelling on it, but no kiss close.
Anyway, recently I been trying to push for the kiss on the first date (not normally my thing), usually I go for it in the 2nd or 3rd dates. (But I want to speed up the game.) So was just wondering in both these instances, is it a lack of interest, or my game being too weak or are girls nowadays seriously agaisnt first date kisses. And in these scenarios of rejection, how would you bros handle and what would you bros do? Also for those who escalate well on date 1 (kissing/making out/hooking up) what are some tips?
Last week I been on 2 first dates with girls I met on OLD.
Girl 1: We had a good vibe during the meet up. Laughed a lot and she was really excited the whole night. I could sort of tell she is interested in me, due to how quick she agreed to meet up with me. Throughout the whole night I was touchy and got progressively more touchy, ultimately telling her I want to kiss her. It was at that moment, she initially refused to kiss me telling me its a public place; but I said screw it, who cares. I gave a small freeze-out after the rejection and ultimately she kissed me. Then later in the night, she was touchy as well, we didn't hook up, bounced to a friends party and ultimately went home.
Girl 2: Situation was sort of same as girl 1. She was really engaged the whole night. She was also very keen to meet up. I was super touchy, rubbing her waist, back, without much resistance or hesitation from her. Finally, I went for the kiss, and she flat out did a cheek turn and covered her mouth with her hand. (This was the first time, I had received a cheek turn, I found it both funny and surprising) She told me, no right now. We ended the late without really dwelling on it, but no kiss close.
Anyway, recently I been trying to push for the kiss on the first date (not normally my thing), usually I go for it in the 2nd or 3rd dates. (But I want to speed up the game.) So was just wondering in both these instances, is it a lack of interest, or my game being too weak or are girls nowadays seriously agaisnt first date kisses. And in these scenarios of rejection, how would you bros handle and what would you bros do? Also for those who escalate well on date 1 (kissing/making out/hooking up) what are some tips?