"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
kissing games
- Thread starter Alittude
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
James Bondage
Don Juan
guy: hey, i bet you $20 that I can kiss you without my lips touching you.
girl: ok
guy: ok, close your eyes
(you may get some resistence here, but look her directly in the eyes, smile and say, go on, trust me, close your eyes)
Then lean in, and give her a very soft kiss on the lips.
girl: hey! your lips touched me!
guy: i know. and that was the most enjoyable $20 i've ever lost.
and take it from there.....
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
I haven't done that since......damn its been a long time.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I think the actual phrase is "Worth every penny" but heh. Its still a good move
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeh, but i kinda feel that saying to her "I basically paid you for your to let me kiss you" might make her feel too much a like a ho'Originally posted by Tomatoes
I think the actual phrase is "Worth every penny" but heh. Its still a good move
But i'll field test both!