"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
kissing games
- Thread starter Alittude
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
James Bondage
Don Juan
guy: hey, i bet you $20 that I can kiss you without my lips touching you.
girl: ok
guy: ok, close your eyes
(you may get some resistence here, but look her directly in the eyes, smile and say, go on, trust me, close your eyes)
Then lean in, and give her a very soft kiss on the lips.
girl: hey! your lips touched me!
guy: i know. and that was the most enjoyable $20 i've ever lost.
and take it from there.....
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
I haven't done that since......damn its been a long time.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I think the actual phrase is "Worth every penny" but heh. Its still a good move
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeh, but i kinda feel that saying to her "I basically paid you for your to let me kiss you" might make her feel too much a like a ho'Originally posted by Tomatoes
I think the actual phrase is "Worth every penny" but heh. Its still a good move
But i'll field test both!