"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
kissing games
- Thread starter Alittude
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
James Bondage
Don Juan
guy: hey, i bet you $20 that I can kiss you without my lips touching you.
girl: ok
guy: ok, close your eyes
(you may get some resistence here, but look her directly in the eyes, smile and say, go on, trust me, close your eyes)
Then lean in, and give her a very soft kiss on the lips.
girl: hey! your lips touched me!
guy: i know. and that was the most enjoyable $20 i've ever lost.
and take it from there.....
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
I haven't done that since......damn its been a long time.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I think the actual phrase is "Worth every penny" but heh. Its still a good move
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeh, but i kinda feel that saying to her "I basically paid you for your to let me kiss you" might make her feel too much a like a ho'Originally posted by Tomatoes
I think the actual phrase is "Worth every penny" but heh. Its still a good move
But i'll field test both!