"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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kissed a young girl on 1st date but might have scared her off

prairiedog24

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brekke said:
Maybe before you call people idiots, you should know that 16 is the legal age in a lot of American States. ;)
Sometimes yes, but often only when they're within 2-3 years of age, which here they are not. This is NOT something you want to screw up on. In the absence of specific research of the statute (which does not include a couple guys arguing on the interwebz or even a flowchart) better safe than sorry and assume 18.

Helpful flowchart:

http://www.4parents.gov/sexrisky/teen_sex/statelaws_chart/statelaws_chart.html
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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poor americans... 16 is legal age here too... mmm sweet young fresh girls :p
 

prairiedog24

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Just a Shot Away said:
WTF is that garbage? I'm no lawyer, but I'm fairly certain you can't bang 10 year olds in South Dakota no matter HOW old you are.
lol, unless I'm misreading it, you can if you're 12.
 
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