"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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kissed a young girl on 1st date but might have scared her off

prairiedog24

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brekke said:
Maybe before you call people idiots, you should know that 16 is the legal age in a lot of American States. ;)
Sometimes yes, but often only when they're within 2-3 years of age, which here they are not. This is NOT something you want to screw up on. In the absence of specific research of the statute (which does not include a couple guys arguing on the interwebz or even a flowchart) better safe than sorry and assume 18.

Helpful flowchart:

http://www.4parents.gov/sexrisky/teen_sex/statelaws_chart/statelaws_chart.html
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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poor americans... 16 is legal age here too... mmm sweet young fresh girls :p
 

prairiedog24

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Just a Shot Away said:
WTF is that garbage? I'm no lawyer, but I'm fairly certain you can't bang 10 year olds in South Dakota no matter HOW old you are.
lol, unless I'm misreading it, you can if you're 12.
 
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