"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kiss the girl's hand when first meeting?

BrotherAP

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I believe JC Jerkson would do that, and even that it could work.

I mean, imagine your at a party - there's beer everywhere, girls dancing dirty on a stage, and people shouting. It's wild. One of your friends says "Hey! meet (name)" and she offers her hand up for a kiss. You, just got back from dancing with two girls, making out with one, you're a little drunk and all worked up so you just lick it, and she pulls back "eww!" and everyone laughs. Ah, you're so funny, and you've made quite the impression, even if she is wiping your slobber off on the AFC standing next to her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yea maybe a slyt college fest.

id like to see this guy pull this out at a bar at the st louis landing or another city like that.

unless everyone there is hammered and he looks like tom cruise..tough luck
 

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if she's Filipino she will really like her hand kissed, because I noticed Filipinos do that when they meet a lady
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I'd lick her hand if she did that.
Don't be surprised if she throws a stick away and goes "Fetch!".
 
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