"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kiss the girl's hand when first meeting?

BrotherAP

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I believe JC Jerkson would do that, and even that it could work.

I mean, imagine your at a party - there's beer everywhere, girls dancing dirty on a stage, and people shouting. It's wild. One of your friends says "Hey! meet (name)" and she offers her hand up for a kiss. You, just got back from dancing with two girls, making out with one, you're a little drunk and all worked up so you just lick it, and she pulls back "eww!" and everyone laughs. Ah, you're so funny, and you've made quite the impression, even if she is wiping your slobber off on the AFC standing next to her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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frivolousz21

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yea maybe a slyt college fest.

id like to see this guy pull this out at a bar at the st louis landing or another city like that.

unless everyone there is hammered and he looks like tom cruise..tough luck
 

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if she's Filipino she will really like her hand kissed, because I noticed Filipinos do that when they meet a lady
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I'd lick her hand if she did that.
Don't be surprised if she throws a stick away and goes "Fetch!".
 
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