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kiss the girl's hand when first meeting?

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I believe JC Jerkson would do that, and even that it could work.

I mean, imagine your at a party - there's beer everywhere, girls dancing dirty on a stage, and people shouting. It's wild. One of your friends says "Hey! meet (name)" and she offers her hand up for a kiss. You, just got back from dancing with two girls, making out with one, you're a little drunk and all worked up so you just lick it, and she pulls back "eww!" and everyone laughs. Ah, you're so funny, and you've made quite the impression, even if she is wiping your slobber off on the AFC standing next to her.
 

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yea maybe a slyt college fest.

id like to see this guy pull this out at a bar at the st louis landing or another city like that.

unless everyone there is hammered and he looks like tom cruise..tough luck
 

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if she's Filipino she will really like her hand kissed, because I noticed Filipinos do that when they meet a lady
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I'd lick her hand if she did that.
Don't be surprised if she throws a stick away and goes "Fetch!".
 
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