"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kiss rejection at a club

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Noobie

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Hey.. so I went clubbing today and as I danced with some acquaintances that I knew. As we grinded I moved my hands around certain areas to keep the sexual tension high.

One thing is, when I motioned my head towards one of the girls to eventually kiss, she pushed my head away even though there was A LOT ALOT ALOT of kino.

This made me think... why she rejected. Given that I'm "first year leader" on the same floor as her(she's a first year), which could complicate things I was wondering what I could've done to make her not reject the kiss.

Obviously besides the answer of intoxicating the girl till she doesn't know what she's doing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CaptainJ

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Was it you doing all the kino?

This reminds me of this boy who goes to parties and tries it on every girl even though he is butters. He basically grinds on them and holds his arms around them, groping them a bit. The girl just caries on, trying to ignore it but not overtly stopping him.

This guy sounds like you. DONT BE THIS GUY.
 
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Allurre

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You'll always encounter women who just AREN'T comfortable with men who touches them constantly, even when they are drunk.

There could be many reasons why you didn't get your happy ending kiss.

1. She just WANTED to dance.
2. She has a boyfriend, and is probably caught up in a heated argument, so she's out clubbing releasing the tension, and somewhat behaving vindictively by dancing with another guy.

Of course, these don't have to be accurate explanations.

It could also come down to how you applied kino. The fact that she isn't reciprocating should also hinted to you that she may NOT be look for the same thing as you are.

But it's all good, there'll be more successful nights coming your way. Don't expect every dance to end in a kiss.
 
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