"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Kiss rejection at a club

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Noobie

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Hey.. so I went clubbing today and as I danced with some acquaintances that I knew. As we grinded I moved my hands around certain areas to keep the sexual tension high.

One thing is, when I motioned my head towards one of the girls to eventually kiss, she pushed my head away even though there was A LOT ALOT ALOT of kino.

This made me think... why she rejected. Given that I'm "first year leader" on the same floor as her(she's a first year), which could complicate things I was wondering what I could've done to make her not reject the kiss.

Obviously besides the answer of intoxicating the girl till she doesn't know what she's doing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CaptainJ

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Was it you doing all the kino?

This reminds me of this boy who goes to parties and tries it on every girl even though he is butters. He basically grinds on them and holds his arms around them, groping them a bit. The girl just caries on, trying to ignore it but not overtly stopping him.

This guy sounds like you. DONT BE THIS GUY.
 
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Allurre

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You'll always encounter women who just AREN'T comfortable with men who touches them constantly, even when they are drunk.

There could be many reasons why you didn't get your happy ending kiss.

1. She just WANTED to dance.
2. She has a boyfriend, and is probably caught up in a heated argument, so she's out clubbing releasing the tension, and somewhat behaving vindictively by dancing with another guy.

Of course, these don't have to be accurate explanations.

It could also come down to how you applied kino. The fact that she isn't reciprocating should also hinted to you that she may NOT be look for the same thing as you are.

But it's all good, there'll be more successful nights coming your way. Don't expect every dance to end in a kiss.
 
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