"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kiss rejection at a club

Noobie

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Hey.. so I went clubbing today and as I danced with some acquaintances that I knew. As we grinded I moved my hands around certain areas to keep the sexual tension high.

One thing is, when I motioned my head towards one of the girls to eventually kiss, she pushed my head away even though there was A LOT ALOT ALOT of kino.

This made me think... why she rejected. Given that I'm "first year leader" on the same floor as her(she's a first year), which could complicate things I was wondering what I could've done to make her not reject the kiss.

Obviously besides the answer of intoxicating the girl till she doesn't know what she's doing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CaptainJ

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Was it you doing all the kino?

This reminds me of this boy who goes to parties and tries it on every girl even though he is butters. He basically grinds on them and holds his arms around them, groping them a bit. The girl just caries on, trying to ignore it but not overtly stopping him.

This guy sounds like you. DONT BE THIS GUY.
 

Allurre

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You'll always encounter women who just AREN'T comfortable with men who touches them constantly, even when they are drunk.

There could be many reasons why you didn't get your happy ending kiss.

1. She just WANTED to dance.
2. She has a boyfriend, and is probably caught up in a heated argument, so she's out clubbing releasing the tension, and somewhat behaving vindictively by dancing with another guy.

Of course, these don't have to be accurate explanations.

It could also come down to how you applied kino. The fact that she isn't reciprocating should also hinted to you that she may NOT be look for the same thing as you are.

But it's all good, there'll be more successful nights coming your way. Don't expect every dance to end in a kiss.
 
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