Im going to hang out with this girl that i really like on friday, and i've known her for a couple of weeks. The problem is that i am leaving that day at 9PM and so i was wondering if I should kiss her or not kiss her. I will be gone for about maybe 3 weeks. So i wasn't sure wat would be good.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kiss or not kiss?
- Thread starter makaio8
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You know the answer man! What do you want to do? What are your balls telling you to do? Thats right buddy! Kiss her, and then try and escalate that **** and **** her brains out.
Just try man, theres a chance you might get shut down but you have nothing to lose, only something to gain. Not trying is illogical.. dont be illogical. Locate your balls and have some fun
Just try man, theres a chance you might get shut down but you have nothing to lose, only something to gain. Not trying is illogical.. dont be illogical. Locate your balls and have some fun
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.