Im going to hang out with this girl that i really like on friday, and i've known her for a couple of weeks. The problem is that i am leaving that day at 9PM and so i was wondering if I should kiss her or not kiss her. I will be gone for about maybe 3 weeks. So i wasn't sure wat would be good.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kiss or not kiss?
- Thread starter makaio8
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You know the answer man! What do you want to do? What are your balls telling you to do? Thats right buddy! Kiss her, and then try and escalate that **** and **** her brains out.
Just try man, theres a chance you might get shut down but you have nothing to lose, only something to gain. Not trying is illogical.. dont be illogical. Locate your balls and have some fun
Just try man, theres a chance you might get shut down but you have nothing to lose, only something to gain. Not trying is illogical.. dont be illogical. Locate your balls and have some fun
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.