Im going to hang out with this girl that i really like on friday, and i've known her for a couple of weeks. The problem is that i am leaving that day at 9PM and so i was wondering if I should kiss her or not kiss her. I will be gone for about maybe 3 weeks. So i wasn't sure wat would be good.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kiss or not kiss?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You know the answer man! What do you want to do? What are your balls telling you to do? Thats right buddy! Kiss her, and then try and escalate that **** and **** her brains out.
Just try man, theres a chance you might get shut down but you have nothing to lose, only something to gain. Not trying is illogical.. dont be illogical. Locate your balls and have some fun
Just try man, theres a chance you might get shut down but you have nothing to lose, only something to gain. Not trying is illogical.. dont be illogical. Locate your balls and have some fun
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.