GREAT WHITE SHARK
Master Don Juan
Can you get aids with a kiss?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
kiss of death? AIDS
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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There have been no recorded cases of that happening. It's not inconceivable, but it has never happened before as far as anyone knows.
Health & Fitness, by the way.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Unless the person is bleeding profusely from the mouth, than no.... There isn't enough of a blood transfer for kissing to transmit the disease. If so then other things like sneezing could make the disease airbourne.
I thought all schools covered this in Health Education. You can't get it from toilet seats either in case you were wondering
I thought all schools covered this in Health Education. You can't get it from toilet seats either in case you were wondering
diablo
Master Don Juan
Salivia?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
I hear that salivia will actual break down and kill the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) on contact, so I'm not sure if it could actually survive even in the mouth of an infected person. But if they are bleeding, then I'm sure that you could get it. Best not to take a risk... ask for her AIDS test results and have yours ready as well.
Get tested.
Dude, you are english...
i'm WelshOriginally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
I hear that salivia will actual break down and kill the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) on contact, so I'm not sure if it could actually survive even in the mouth of an infected person. But if they are bleeding, then I'm sure that you could get it. Best not to take a risk... ask for her AIDS test results and have yours ready as well.
Get tested.
Dude, you are english...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
AIDS/HIV is contracted thru blood, semen, or vaginal secretions via some opening which leads into the bloodstream. The same way hepitis B is contracted--both diseases are bloodborne pathogens. I've never heard of anyone contracting AIDS thru kissing.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.