"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang - First Date, HB8 Leaves 2 days Later

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I number closed this girl at a club last week and she's a real cutie. I setup a date with her last night for this friday and she gave me her addy and i'll be picking her up to go downtown and walk around. Here's the kicker. She moves two days after the date from what she's told me until the summer time.

Thoughts?

My thoughts are to go for the f-close which is a no-brainer on most dates anyways but now moreso because there are no-strings attached. She's showing very high levels of interest but there will obviously not be much time for a 2nd date so this is one of those less common situations. Anyone got some ideas?

Walk, movie at my place, f-close, postcard?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One other thing is that she asked me to give her a call again before the date even though the time and place for picking her up is set. confirm tomorrow or the day of earlier in the day?

Any feedback people?
 

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Bump.
 

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Thank you for the suggestions Brak86 :)
 
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