"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang - First Date, HB8 Leaves 2 days Later

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I number closed this girl at a club last week and she's a real cutie. I setup a date with her last night for this friday and she gave me her addy and i'll be picking her up to go downtown and walk around. Here's the kicker. She moves two days after the date from what she's told me until the summer time.

Thoughts?

My thoughts are to go for the f-close which is a no-brainer on most dates anyways but now moreso because there are no-strings attached. She's showing very high levels of interest but there will obviously not be much time for a 2nd date so this is one of those less common situations. Anyone got some ideas?

Walk, movie at my place, f-close, postcard?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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One other thing is that she asked me to give her a call again before the date even though the time and place for picking her up is set. confirm tomorrow or the day of earlier in the day?

Any feedback people?
 

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Bump.
 

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Thank you for the suggestions Brak86 :)
 
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