"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kiss goodnight at the end of night

da_hunter

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Say you are out w a girl on a day2. The evening seems to be going mediocre. You haven't gotten any sexx or making out, though. Maybe some hand holding or something. Do you go for a kiss goodnight? or would this be a bad move in this situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LionOne

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Go for the hug first. Look her into eyes and smile. Give her a good hug and say you had fun. Then give her a quick kiss on her cheek and say good night. It's casual and doesn't mean anything but it's easier to kino her later after small move like this. It's easy to do this if you have had some small kino with her earlier the same evening. After hand holding definetly do this, she will appreciate you for taking initiate.
 
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