"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kiss goodnight at the end of night

da_hunter

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Say you are out w a girl on a day2. The evening seems to be going mediocre. You haven't gotten any sexx or making out, though. Maybe some hand holding or something. Do you go for a kiss goodnight? or would this be a bad move in this situation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Go for the hug first. Look her into eyes and smile. Give her a good hug and say you had fun. Then give her a quick kiss on her cheek and say good night. It's casual and doesn't mean anything but it's easier to kino her later after small move like this. It's easy to do this if you have had some small kino with her earlier the same evening. After hand holding definetly do this, she will appreciate you for taking initiate.
 
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