"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kiss first then ask her out
- Thread starter GetFit66
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Might work for you. Kissing first works for me, but in a different way. Made out with two girls at the same time last weekend, and now they both want to date me.Danger said:
It depends on how you react if you can succeed. I like to keep the conversation kind of flirty, but still hard to get. Thing is; they already know they can get you, so you need to think of an other way to keep them interested (I usually do this by showing genuine interest in other girls when close to them).
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
Kiss at a party/bar. Try to escalate but if no sex then that's OK. Exchange numbers. Text her a day or two later to see what's up (but don't ask her out). Then just wait.
You'll get the "so when can we see each other" text. That's when you know you've got her and she's into you. No need to chase. Next date is usually sex.