"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kiss first then ask her out
- Thread starter GetFit66
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Might work for you. Kissing first works for me, but in a different way. Made out with two girls at the same time last weekend, and now they both want to date me.Danger said:
It depends on how you react if you can succeed. I like to keep the conversation kind of flirty, but still hard to get. Thing is; they already know they can get you, so you need to think of an other way to keep them interested (I usually do this by showing genuine interest in other girls when close to them).
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
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Kiss at a party/bar. Try to escalate but if no sex then that's OK. Exchange numbers. Text her a day or two later to see what's up (but don't ask her out). Then just wait.
You'll get the "so when can we see each other" text. That's when you know you've got her and she's into you. No need to chase. Next date is usually sex.