"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kiss Close on the Dancefloor?

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Somehow I was acting like a loon on the dancefloor, bit of headbanging and jumping and it obviously got two particular girls attention. When they were with us sort of near a corner they started pulling their tops down and playing with their breasts

Anyway got a bit of grinding going on with one in particular but just blanked as I had no idea how to kiss close as this was the first night out I'd had with a positive attitude and I got further than I expected too. I knew they were up for something but t wasn't a case of 'im scared to do it'. I just genuinely had no idea what to do

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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man last week i was at a frat house party and this drunk girl was dancing with me for like half the night and feeling me up and i just told her to kiss me and she did multiple times. this happened with two girls that night so i guess just tell them to kiss you
 
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omega05 said:
man last week i was at a frat house party and this drunk girl was dancing with me for like half the night and feeling me up and i just told her to kiss me and she did multiple times. this happened with two girls that night so i guess just tell them to kiss you
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Cheers man. Will try this next time. Don't normally like talking in clubs
 
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Flip her around if she's grinding on your junk and just put your mouth next to hers. Kissing on the dance floor doesn't get any simpler then that. If she moves away or gives you a cheek, then that's a no. If she moves her head in closer, its a yes.

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Yeah talking in clubs is a pain in the ass. Scrouds has the right idea. However you dont really need to turn her round as such!

One time i was grinding with this girl and she was looking over her shoulder at me so i just kissed her from behind! you could try that if u feel like it but i guess doing it face to face is easier/more obvious.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ Miquelo said:
Yeah talking in clubs is a pain in the ass. Scrouds has the right idea. However you dont really need to turn her round as such!

One time i was grinding with this girl and she was looking over her shoulder at me so i just kissed her from behind! you could try that if u feel like it but i guess doing it face to face is easier/more obvious.
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Dayyumm she was looking over her shoulder a fair bit and all
 
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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Dayyumm she was looking over her shoulder a fair bit and all
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haha yeah she was like a goddam owl!!!

lol not really. she just looked over to her left and i was obv really close to her anyway so i just kissed her over her shoulder a bit. kinda hard to describe i realise...
 
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DJ Miquelo said:
haha yeah she was like a goddam owl!!!

lol not really. she just looked over to her left and i was obv really close to her anyway so i just kissed her over her shoulder a bit. kinda hard to describe i realise...
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Doesn't sound very practical but I'm sure it's possible yes
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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apart from brushing your teeth all i can really advise you to do is have confidence and not give a sh!t about what goes down and just do what u want to do!

oh yeah, and have FUN!
 
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