"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kiss Close on the Dancefloor?

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Somehow I was acting like a loon on the dancefloor, bit of headbanging and jumping and it obviously got two particular girls attention. When they were with us sort of near a corner they started pulling their tops down and playing with their breasts

Anyway got a bit of grinding going on with one in particular but just blanked as I had no idea how to kiss close as this was the first night out I'd had with a positive attitude and I got further than I expected too. I knew they were up for something but t wasn't a case of 'im scared to do it'. I just genuinely had no idea what to do

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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man last week i was at a frat house party and this drunk girl was dancing with me for like half the night and feeling me up and i just told her to kiss me and she did multiple times. this happened with two girls that night so i guess just tell them to kiss you
 
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omega05 said:
man last week i was at a frat house party and this drunk girl was dancing with me for like half the night and feeling me up and i just told her to kiss me and she did multiple times. this happened with two girls that night so i guess just tell them to kiss you
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Cheers man. Will try this next time. Don't normally like talking in clubs
 
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Flip her around if she's grinding on your junk and just put your mouth next to hers. Kissing on the dance floor doesn't get any simpler then that. If she moves away or gives you a cheek, then that's a no. If she moves her head in closer, its a yes.

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Yeah talking in clubs is a pain in the ass. Scrouds has the right idea. However you dont really need to turn her round as such!

One time i was grinding with this girl and she was looking over her shoulder at me so i just kissed her from behind! you could try that if u feel like it but i guess doing it face to face is easier/more obvious.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Miquelo said:
Yeah talking in clubs is a pain in the ass. Scrouds has the right idea. However you dont really need to turn her round as such!

One time i was grinding with this girl and she was looking over her shoulder at me so i just kissed her from behind! you could try that if u feel like it but i guess doing it face to face is easier/more obvious.
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Dayyumm she was looking over her shoulder a fair bit and all
 
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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Dayyumm she was looking over her shoulder a fair bit and all
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haha yeah she was like a goddam owl!!!

lol not really. she just looked over to her left and i was obv really close to her anyway so i just kissed her over her shoulder a bit. kinda hard to describe i realise...
 
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haha yeah she was like a goddam owl!!!

lol not really. she just looked over to her left and i was obv really close to her anyway so i just kissed her over her shoulder a bit. kinda hard to describe i realise...
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Doesn't sound very practical but I'm sure it's possible yes
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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apart from brushing your teeth all i can really advise you to do is have confidence and not give a sh!t about what goes down and just do what u want to do!

oh yeah, and have FUN!
 
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