"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KINO - what to REALLY do to end up having sex

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For me, kino is all about displaying that you are no afraid to enter her personal space, not threatened of her and close contact. It doesnt click with all girls though. I had turned girls on from just walking up and brushing their leg, and also have freaked a girl or two from such close contact.

My game is different really. I am not afriad to be touchy feely when I like the girl, I need someone to hold grab tug when I am with them.

Its kind of funny, that post you made reminded me of the days when I thought about "should i put my hand around her now? no? Now? Sh1t!!" .. now I dont really think about it, I just do what I think will work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The girl must initiate contact. Even extending your hand to a woman first is considered bad etiquette. It goes back to the days of chivalry. Assuming she does, a massage is a good idea, good thing to do at the bar.
 

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bigneil said:
It goes back to the days of chivalry.
The days of chivalry are alive and well. The rules have simply changed.

Taking the initiative in your behavior demonstrates confidence; however, whether you should advance ultimately depends on the scenario. If you're standing next to a woman at a bar, you haven't been introduced, and you suddenly start touching her, you will undoubtedly discomfort her. If the context of your intended actions would likely create discomfort, wait until the opportune moment. Comfort is vital to all relationships.
 

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If you're standing next to a woman at a bar, you haven't been introduced, and you suddenly start touching her, you will undoubtedly discomfort her.
What the fukk is this? What girl is NOT going to freak out when someone just starts touching her?


Bigneil is wrong, wiating for a girl is a bad idea since chicks can't take initiative most of the time. They drop hints, and you must pick up on that, or feed her booze to make her say what she's been thinking all along.

You must make the moves, remember that.

Oh yeah all the stuff I said above assumes that you have known this girl for more than 2 seconds - say you met her for the first time and its been like 30 mins u been having fun or chilling with friends.

Quickest way - joke - touch.

Or excitement - touch

HIGH FIVE - pull hand away "Haa! Sucker!" . She punches you, there ya go. God I cant even type this sh1t. I dont know how I do this, it just comes to me naturally now. I cant explain it sounds dorky as fukk sitting here telling you to brush her hair or pick her up...
 

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Oxide said:
What girl is NOT going to freak out when someone just starts touching her?
Think about it. I'm sure the keyword "bar" will fire up your imagination.

Oxide said:
What the fukk is this?
I suggest you reread what I wrote if you think I'm agreeing with bigneil.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I didn't believe it either, but if you're smoothe you can begin touching females as early as a few seconds of the interaction...

I had one female tell me, "You're touching me alot and it usually makes me feel uncomfortable, but I feel so comfortable right now" that and the the girl that I practiced on opened my eyes, you can touch them... fvck the bs


-Cod3r
 

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bigneil said:
The girl must initiate contact. Even extending your hand to a woman first is considered bad etiquette. It goes back to the days of chivalry. Assuming she does, a massage is a good idea, good thing to do at the bar.
the girl must iniitate contact???? WOW u have no idea what to do to get pvssy do u???

LISTEN

YOU as the man must LEAD, and INITIATE. Out of all the girls i ever fcuked, id say only 10% of them initiated ANYTHING.......so shut up, go out, and learn from experience dummy
 

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Depending on the situation, whether you initiate first or she does will vary.

However, men usually initiate first. It's not concrete. It's just "usually".
 

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if she lets you tickle her onto a couch, or the ground, any position when shes lying down and your on top, and she enjoys is

youre pretty much 100% in
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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