"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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KINO - what to REALLY do to end up having sex

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For me, kino is all about displaying that you are no afraid to enter her personal space, not threatened of her and close contact. It doesnt click with all girls though. I had turned girls on from just walking up and brushing their leg, and also have freaked a girl or two from such close contact.

My game is different really. I am not afriad to be touchy feely when I like the girl, I need someone to hold grab tug when I am with them.

Its kind of funny, that post you made reminded me of the days when I thought about "should i put my hand around her now? no? Now? Sh1t!!" .. now I dont really think about it, I just do what I think will work.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The girl must initiate contact. Even extending your hand to a woman first is considered bad etiquette. It goes back to the days of chivalry. Assuming she does, a massage is a good idea, good thing to do at the bar.
 

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bigneil said:
It goes back to the days of chivalry.
The days of chivalry are alive and well. The rules have simply changed.

Taking the initiative in your behavior demonstrates confidence; however, whether you should advance ultimately depends on the scenario. If you're standing next to a woman at a bar, you haven't been introduced, and you suddenly start touching her, you will undoubtedly discomfort her. If the context of your intended actions would likely create discomfort, wait until the opportune moment. Comfort is vital to all relationships.
 

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If you're standing next to a woman at a bar, you haven't been introduced, and you suddenly start touching her, you will undoubtedly discomfort her.
What the fukk is this? What girl is NOT going to freak out when someone just starts touching her?


Bigneil is wrong, wiating for a girl is a bad idea since chicks can't take initiative most of the time. They drop hints, and you must pick up on that, or feed her booze to make her say what she's been thinking all along.

You must make the moves, remember that.

Oh yeah all the stuff I said above assumes that you have known this girl for more than 2 seconds - say you met her for the first time and its been like 30 mins u been having fun or chilling with friends.

Quickest way - joke - touch.

Or excitement - touch

HIGH FIVE - pull hand away "Haa! Sucker!" . She punches you, there ya go. God I cant even type this sh1t. I dont know how I do this, it just comes to me naturally now. I cant explain it sounds dorky as fukk sitting here telling you to brush her hair or pick her up...
 

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Oxide said:
What girl is NOT going to freak out when someone just starts touching her?
Think about it. I'm sure the keyword "bar" will fire up your imagination.

Oxide said:
What the fukk is this?
I suggest you reread what I wrote if you think I'm agreeing with bigneil.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I didn't believe it either, but if you're smoothe you can begin touching females as early as a few seconds of the interaction...

I had one female tell me, "You're touching me alot and it usually makes me feel uncomfortable, but I feel so comfortable right now" that and the the girl that I practiced on opened my eyes, you can touch them... fvck the bs


-Cod3r
 

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bigneil said:
The girl must initiate contact. Even extending your hand to a woman first is considered bad etiquette. It goes back to the days of chivalry. Assuming she does, a massage is a good idea, good thing to do at the bar.
the girl must iniitate contact???? WOW u have no idea what to do to get pvssy do u???

LISTEN

YOU as the man must LEAD, and INITIATE. Out of all the girls i ever fcuked, id say only 10% of them initiated ANYTHING.......so shut up, go out, and learn from experience dummy
 

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Depending on the situation, whether you initiate first or she does will vary.

However, men usually initiate first. It's not concrete. It's just "usually".
 

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if she lets you tickle her onto a couch, or the ground, any position when shes lying down and your on top, and she enjoys is

youre pretty much 100% in
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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