Kino What am i doing wrong

[bluemanson]

Hi Guys this is my 1st post.

Ok i have this girl in my class in university. we always together and we always chatting and stuff during and after class. She has other guy friends. Now when i spoke to her 1st, i did Kino, light touches on her arm, back hands. after about 2 weeks i touched her on the waist and she told me that she doesnt like people touching, so i told her in a c&F way " why, did i turn you on" and i smiled she just gave me this look. I didnt care what she thought, later i just spoke to like normal in my C&F way. she was cool. a few days later i initiated kino again but now she doesnt respond. did i start again to soon or should i wait longer.

Thanks

 

[schttrj]

i strongly believe when you are out to game a girl, focus on the girl more and less on the techniques you have learnt. Try to read her and understand her and go by that. It is the full recipe that tastes good.

 

[DonGorgon]

She is on to your game and shut it down early so you need to reformulate..

 

[bluemanson]

i think you right, she might be on to my game,
and reading this girl is kind of difficult. still learning the don juan way LOL
she changes her mood, i email her, then shes different but when i phone her, it sounds likes she excited to hear my voice. D@mn she just confuses me.
I have asked her out for lunch and it went all good but after that she just seemed different.
what else can i try to see if she interested

 

[schttrj]

u know what, i think u just messed her up or that she is already messed up.... anyway, try to get her jealous, while no ignoring her, thats it.

 

[bluemanson]

THanks schttrj
il give it a try. if i dont try i wont know

Thanks

 

[DonGorgon]

i think you right, she might be on to my game,
and reading this girl is kind of difficult. still learning the don juan way LOL
she changes her mood, i email her, then shes different but when i phone her, it sounds likes she excited to hear my voice. D@mn she just confuses me.
I have asked her out for lunch and it went all good but after that she just seemed different.
what else can i try to see if she interested

Dont let her confuse you ,,, you need to cofuse her.. dont bother to read her, make her read you ... you be the prize..

 

[bluemanson]

make her read me. ok. wil do it

 

[DavenJuan]

"i dont like being touched"....

i wouldve responded " i guess your not use to attention uh?"

dont by no means apologize for your actions. you express yourself with your hands, and its part of your personality.

withdraw your actions a bit if she seems creeped out. but never apologize for being YOU

 

[bluemanson]

I never apologise for what i did. and It works lol

 

[schttrj]

i found out that when they say anything like that, its best if u dont answer that and just ignore that. make her think about it. u know we guys are somewhat very bad at social skills. even if we think we are hiding something, we cant. so its better that we dont make it clearer by saying any c/f or negs...

 

[OrangeCrusader]

Sounds like you creeped her out a little, to be honest. I tend to start with some light kino, and wait until she reciprocates, or escalates it, before amping it up myself, or at least looking for some decent IOI's before escalating. Good luck.