"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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cablecow15

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ok theres this girl i like and she likes me a bit to but when we walk around the block i put my hand on her shoulder and she says ""stop touching me""
could she just not like being touched on the shoulder or am i coming off bad and just need to slow down
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lmao she says thats all the time?? Maybe u being unoriginal.. And If she says that all the time!!!!! Then its time to dump her!! If she says it in a funny way, then its time to bang her! good luck :D
 

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depends on how your doing it, you don't want to get her used to you touching and have her end up always saying that, that is why when you first starting to just leave it there for a bit (1-2 secs) and then get more bolder. playfully bumping or pushing her is great to. Also read up on compliance theory so you can get a little info on how to kino properly and learn how to escalate it from there.
 

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she says dont touch me in a fast way so i guess thats playfull but i have a BIG BIG PROBLEM ok her last bf came back (me and him were friends) and i think hes after her again and i think he likes him to so im wondering if i should just aske her out now and hope for the best or is there something i can try to ruin his game , or just move on (id rather not move on ) any ideas ?
 

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cablecow15 said:
she says dont touch me in a fast way so i guess thats playfull but i have a BIG BIG PROBLEM ok her last bf came back (me and him were friends) and i think hes after her again and i think he likes him to so im wondering if i should just aske her out now and hope for the best or is there something i can try to ruin his game , or just move on (id rather not move on ) any ideas ?
Why ruin his game? You are Prince Charming, remember? If she's too foolish to see that you're the better choice, than it's her fault. NEXT her if she chooses to go to someone else. (see the DJ Bible for the Prince Charming stuff)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thank you will do but like sometimes he does little jokes that piss me off and make me look bad
 

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Keep your cool with the guy. The last thing you want is to have an emotional outburst. Keep playing your game, but remember the KEY to kino is your recognition of her response to kino. It's not the physical act itself, but how she feels about it. If you're getting negative body language, back off. If you KNOW for sure you have rapport with her you can freeze her out by turning your body slightly away from her to convey distance. If she reinitiates, you've got her. You should freeze out for 3-5 min the first time you have to do it. If you're playing solid game w/ kino and she still gives you the cold should and negative body language, its time to move on. (Freeze outs- credit Mystery)
 
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