Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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cablecow15

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ok theres this girl i like and she likes me a bit to but when we walk around the block i put my hand on her shoulder and she says ""stop touching me""
could she just not like being touched on the shoulder or am i coming off bad and just need to slow down
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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shydude

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Lmao she says thats all the time?? Maybe u being unoriginal.. And If she says that all the time!!!!! Then its time to dump her!! If she says it in a funny way, then its time to bang her! good luck :D
 

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depends on how your doing it, you don't want to get her used to you touching and have her end up always saying that, that is why when you first starting to just leave it there for a bit (1-2 secs) and then get more bolder. playfully bumping or pushing her is great to. Also read up on compliance theory so you can get a little info on how to kino properly and learn how to escalate it from there.
 

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she says dont touch me in a fast way so i guess thats playfull but i have a BIG BIG PROBLEM ok her last bf came back (me and him were friends) and i think hes after her again and i think he likes him to so im wondering if i should just aske her out now and hope for the best or is there something i can try to ruin his game , or just move on (id rather not move on ) any ideas ?
 

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cablecow15 said:
she says dont touch me in a fast way so i guess thats playfull but i have a BIG BIG PROBLEM ok her last bf came back (me and him were friends) and i think hes after her again and i think he likes him to so im wondering if i should just aske her out now and hope for the best or is there something i can try to ruin his game , or just move on (id rather not move on ) any ideas ?
Why ruin his game? You are Prince Charming, remember? If she's too foolish to see that you're the better choice, than it's her fault. NEXT her if she chooses to go to someone else. (see the DJ Bible for the Prince Charming stuff)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cablecow15

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thank you will do but like sometimes he does little jokes that piss me off and make me look bad
 

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Keep your cool with the guy. The last thing you want is to have an emotional outburst. Keep playing your game, but remember the KEY to kino is your recognition of her response to kino. It's not the physical act itself, but how she feels about it. If you're getting negative body language, back off. If you KNOW for sure you have rapport with her you can freeze her out by turning your body slightly away from her to convey distance. If she reinitiates, you've got her. You should freeze out for 3-5 min the first time you have to do it. If you're playing solid game w/ kino and she still gives you the cold should and negative body language, its time to move on. (Freeze outs- credit Mystery)
 
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