"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kino: So effective, so sedddductivee

JohnChops

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Went out on Saturday with my buddy, his girl, and one of her friends (who I never met). We all went out and I really had no intention of gaming this chick, but that all changed.

Naturally I flirt with almost everyone and anyone, why the hell not, and touching is one of the best things to do when you want to flirt and make your intentions known without saying a word.

We were at a bar, she was always in close proximity to me but no touching as of yet, just some small conversation. Then we were moving to a new place and I threw my arms around her and moved her. After that it was game over.

From there on out, the whole night, she was ALWAYS touching me. If I was sitting down next to her, her foot/legs were always touching mine. She was talking about ripped jeans or some **** (women clothes ****) so I felt her leg and said, " no rips, not cool". There was a point in the night when we were all sitting for an extended period of time and she was putting her arms all over my shoulders, she grabbed my face at one point.I've never been so violated ;).

You get the point here, she was all over me. At the end of the night, she drove separate and I drove with my buddy and his GF, my buddy's GF gets a text from her friend and says, "Give JohnChops my number please".

Take away message: KINO THE **** OUT OF ANY SITUATION. But the kicker is not doing it in a creepy way. If you are not comfortable in your touch she will notice and she will not be turned on. She will know you are not comfortable with yourself. So only do the above if comfortable.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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Kino is the shiz.....firm believer here
 

dustmuffin

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Had a recent date comment how much she liked my "affection". It was balls deep kino. Easy way to start is when you meet get a hug. Then guide her to the table with your hand in the middle of her lower back. Is she wearing rings? TAke her hand in yours and ask her about it......OMG! There is something in your hair. Brush it out with your hand and when you take your hand away let it brush her arm.....There are so many different ways to apply kino!
 

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They will tell you were that line is. I believe in discovering it. In my experiences, it's always a great latitude farther then one might think. Have some instincts of course, but KINO is way underestimated. Except in a professional environment.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Colossus

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You can kino anyone. I kino my patients every single day (non-sexually). Touch them on the shoulder, back, maybe touch their hand when I'm trying to make an important point. It works. They trust me and relax a little.
 

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You can kino anyone. I kino my patients every single day (non-sexually). Touch them on the shoulder, back, maybe touch their hand when I'm trying to make an important point. It works. They trust me and relax a little.
Absolutely. Kino can be used with guys, of course, non-sexually, but things like putting your arm around their shoulders when talking good about the guy makes the interaction much more connective between you and the guy. Things like this, really help to make your male friendships stronger.
 
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