"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kino Questions

afc_recovering

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I've been reading information from this site for a few months now, and I feel it has improved my success and my confidence with woman, as proven by New Years Eve ;):woo:. (A FR may be in order)

Through trial and error, I have mastered ****y & Funny, eye contact, body language, and I have become a lot more confident around woman.

I believe there is one part of my game that is still weak; Kinesthetics. I have seen the power of Kino work, but I have used kino with little success. I have 3 questions about the powerful art.

1. I've read that you are supposed to escalate the Kino as the woman begins to show interest and returns it. When the tips say escalate the kino, are you supposed to make it more sexual, or just more frequent?

2. I only use kino while anchoring points or maybe giving a girl a hug after a neg hit etc. What are some examples of when you use kino?

3. After doing a search, I've found that kino still works with shy girls, but should you start kino right away with shy girls, or should you build some rapport first?

Thanks,
AFC_Recovering
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dr. Jim

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Is Kino like just general playful touching, like say she lays a punch and calls me a jerk? and I lightly hit her back and it escalates/her IL - is that kinesthetics?
 

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i think its any touching and when she shows more intrest make it more sexual
 

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or sometimes give them alot of kino and then take it away from them and they will come to you
 
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