"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kino Questions

afc_recovering

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I've been reading information from this site for a few months now, and I feel it has improved my success and my confidence with woman, as proven by New Years Eve ;):woo:. (A FR may be in order)

Through trial and error, I have mastered ****y & Funny, eye contact, body language, and I have become a lot more confident around woman.

I believe there is one part of my game that is still weak; Kinesthetics. I have seen the power of Kino work, but I have used kino with little success. I have 3 questions about the powerful art.

1. I've read that you are supposed to escalate the Kino as the woman begins to show interest and returns it. When the tips say escalate the kino, are you supposed to make it more sexual, or just more frequent?

2. I only use kino while anchoring points or maybe giving a girl a hug after a neg hit etc. What are some examples of when you use kino?

3. After doing a search, I've found that kino still works with shy girls, but should you start kino right away with shy girls, or should you build some rapport first?

Thanks,
AFC_Recovering
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dr. Jim

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Is Kino like just general playful touching, like say she lays a punch and calls me a jerk? and I lightly hit her back and it escalates/her IL - is that kinesthetics?
 

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i think its any touching and when she shows more intrest make it more sexual
 

theNEWDJ

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or sometimes give them alot of kino and then take it away from them and they will come to you
 
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