"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kino: Poking,patting,etc. ?

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I was getting out of class and I saw this girl whose number I got less than a week ago. She was facing a snack machine and I was walking by her backside. My instincts were to pat her and say "hi." And even Later when I got home I even thought that poking one of her obliques and saying "hi" would have also worked. But I just said "hi HB" without any touching. She was still happy about it, but I felt so AFC and weak. But too bad for her because I sensed that she would have appreciated kino.

Tips?

What should I do in future situations where I pass a girl whose number I have, but her attention is elsewhere (e.g snack machine, studying) or maybe her back is turned (she's walking in front of me).

Or, maybe my ideas of patting or poking are inappropriate?
 

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if u already have meet then the best thing is do if shes walking infront, is get on her right side, and tap her left shoulder. simple yet effective :)
 
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Originally posted by Thraxeh
if u already have meet then the best thing is do if shes walking infront, is get on her right side, and tap her left shoulder. simple yet effective :)
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The way that I picture this makes it also look weak. It's like the guy is tapping because he's seeking approval from her. Otherwise, he would do something more aggressive such as sneak up behind her and suprisingly poke her sides, which is what I had in mind. No approval seeking there.
 
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BEST ADVICE:
next time just go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
 
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You take a chair and WHACK!

If she doesn't notice you after that, something is very, very wrong...
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Tickle.

Playful punches.

Playful pushes.

Go for a hi-5 and pull in for a hug.

Go for a hi-5, spin her 360, and pull in for a hug.

Go for a hi-5, spin her 360, pull her in for a hug, and go for a quick peck on the lips.

Go for a hi-5, spin her 360, pull her in for a hug, spin her 360, and go for a quick peck on the lips.

Throw her over your shoulder.

Play thumbwars.

Playfully slap her ass.

Booty bump her away from the snack machine and say HEY STOP HOGGING THE MACHINE!

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Damn this board can be really AFC sometimes.
 
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"Booty bump her away from the snack machine and say HEY STOP HOGGING THE MACHINE!"

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 
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