"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah you would. which is good. just keep it simple, if you pass her, do it, then be on your way.
goodluck keep us posted.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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YES i got the digits!....it seemed rough at firts cuz i ended up doing it tonight online cuz i didnt see opportunity at school but i was kidding around n called her by a longer version of he rname but apparently that wasnt her name and she told me this but then after that i cracked a joke that my name wasnt real but then i said i was joking n she laughed and gave me the number...good bad?i was kinda worried she gave it to me cuz she must know i like her by now and felt bad
 
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i was waiting to see how you did. congrats. did she give you the number before you asked? doesn't really matter tho in your sitch - uv got her number, now you can relax.
 
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nah i asked, mention the wrong name haha and she corrected it n i got the number like 30 seconds later but then again it was online so i dunno i was afraid for a few seconds i wont lie i was like damm dude shes probly not gunna send it n thats that id have to pretend i didnt notice but yeah. She waits for my friend n me to walk together to class n my friend told me that before she knew me she didn usually wait for him ever so thats a good sign
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yeah that is a good sign man.
but i reckon now, don't worry about signs or nething. she is interested. that's that.
ps don't fall into the trap of calling her to talk. you will become "just friends" if you do that too early.
call to set up dates/time to hang out at the beginning.
you can ring just to talk later on.
 
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