"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kino ladder.

xomel

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How does it go? The first kino you should do and the last kino that you should do. Let's try to make the biggest (mabye the first) kino ladder ever posted :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TyTe`EyEs

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I think it's already been done.
 

xomel

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I searched and I didnt find anything on this forum. Do you have a link? If not let's make it! :D
 

Frankie Poullain

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Yeah I see what you mean so here you go. But as much as I would like to put my name to this theory I can't. It's not my own work, but only what I can remember from a book a read once. They called it ''the 12 Steps of Intimacy'' but really this is the Kino ladder as good as you'll ever find it.

1. Eye to body. The old once-over, except it happens in a fraction of an instant. Only a few significant details are absorbed. And attraction is decided upon within the initial moments. A few seconds at most.

2. Eye to eye. Eye contact is sustained. If you stare, it's considered rude or an act of aggression.

3. Voice to voice. Ranges from small talk to intimate.

4. Hand to hand. This requires some trust. Hand to arm counts here, too. General kino can be applied here as an excuse to by guiding the girl where you want her to go (through a doorway).

5. Arm to shoulder. A hug or embracement.

6. Arm to waist. Can be sexual, especially if "waist" is considered the small of the back. You wouldn't do this to another man.

7. Mouth to mouth. Full frontal contact during a kiss.

8. Hand to head. Requires trust. To possibly encase a girl's head whilst kissing.

9. Hand to body. Any part of her you want. Breast, shoulder, chest. Its all available.

You will probably have noticed that all these acts could have all been ''performed'' in public. But now things heat up. Hopefully you know what the rest means..

10. Mouth to breast.

11. Hand to genitals.

12. Genitals to genitals.

Again: This is not my own theory, just what I have read.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hollowpoint

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What about mouth to ass, or mouth to genitals or mouth to foot?!?!?!

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