"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kino in old social circle from pre-Kino AFC days

UltimateDJuan

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Ok here's a quick summary.

In the AFC days I was usually the quiet guy in the group who rarely ever kino'd the girls in the social circle.

I've been in this social circle for a long time (maybe 6-7 years). Over that time i've mostly been a beta.

Now that i've learned about the importance of Kino, the idea of initiating it on people who i've known for a long time (who i have not been touchy with) concerns me, because it would immediately be seen as awkward since i've not been like that in the entire time people knew me.

I realize some of the people responding to this thread will say "ignore the old social circle and work on new prospects" but i'm really interested in seeing if I can change the perception of the group from seeing me as the passive guy, into a more alpha position.

So basically my question is: Will beginning a new wave of kino on the HBs in the group create an awkward situation (i'm guessing this is a yes) and if so what is the solution to this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nexus Polaris

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I'm going through the exact same thing right now with my group of friends. Trying to increase my rank within the system in a sense.

It's been my experience that the people who know you will be last to notice you change. You're a lot more likely to get better responses from new people who don't have a preconceived notion of what you are like.

That being said, I've definitely become more touchy feely with my female friends, but I'm also not out to get anything from them. In fact, I've disclosed with a few of them what I'm doing with this place, and I've basically explained that I'm just practicing on them to get more comfortable being casually physical with all women. They're generally pretty cool about it.
 

Maxtro

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Just start really slow and light with hand and arm touches. Then gradually work your way up to more intense kino. If you do it discreetly enough, nobody would notice the change.
 
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