Kino in office - office sex fantasies...

[Luke Skywalker]

There has always been recurrent themes in current office in terms of sex fantasies, such as meeting other agents or people or secretaries and getting something going (i.e. doggystyle on the desk) in my office cubicle. NOTE: THIS IS SUBCONCIOUS EXPRESSION - THERE IS NO REAL INTENT OF ACTUALLY DOING THIS - THIS IS JUST IN THE BACK OF MY MIND - I KNOW DIFFERENCE BETWEEN REALITY AND FANTASY.

The idea is to escalate kino with people who are friendly and who are not married or are in a relationship, and see how far the kino would go before they repel or they continue accepting escalating kino. Obviously, if kino is accepted and never repelled, then scenerios such as the above are the likely progress of mad-escalation, however, it's likely a long-shot.

NOTE: I SAID PEOPLE WHO ARE 'FRIENDLY' TO ME AND ARE SINGLE, WHICH MEANS, GIVING I'M USING JUDGEMENT OR MAKING CALCULATED RISKS ON ANY ACTION OR PROPOSED ACTION INVOLVING PRE-KINO, KINO OR ESCALATING KINO.

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This thread is a kino-journal where attempts are made, subconciously, to actualise these fantasies in the form of kino play and how far the kino play is going to go.

The first entry here will be documented, and other entries will be documented on a weekly basis just to see how far kino would go in an office context.

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Today's entry: Approached secretary and had some fluff talk with her. While fluffing I gradually went further into her space, but got anxious when I saw some other agents passing. She did not resist or appear to go away from me and continued fluffing me.

Goal accomplished - go into her personal space as much as possible with calm fluff talk and see what type of reaction she will have.

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[Serialized3]

A guy with more game might be able to pull this off, but I'm sure you're gonna come off as creepy and get fired.

You're just begging for a sexual harrassment suit against you, you knob.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

A guy with more game might be able to pull this off, but I'm sure you're gonna come off as creepy and get fired.

You're just begging for a sexual harrassment suit against you, you knob.

But that's the whole point of gradual escalation.

If there is evidence that a girl is uncomfortable or repulsed, then it's easy to eject and dismiss it before anything goes too far.

A 'Nice Guy' is going to worry about how he's coming across because he doesn't want to offend anyone, but a guy whose successful with women has to take some risks - but calculated risks. You are not going to kino or escalate with someone who is hostile towards you, or you dont feel any connection with - obviously you'll take your chances on someone who is friendly - and of course, the minute they show any resistance, you back off two steps and potentially stop.

The whole thread is discussed in techniques.

In the final analysis, some sort of test has to be made in order to determine interest level, including kino, and to assume that 'I have no game, everyone is going to think I'm creepy' is toxic and not really helpful since calculated risk and judgement is more at play here.

 

[Serialized3]

But that's the whole point of gradual escalation.

If there is evidence that a girl is uncomfortable or repulsed, then it's easy to eject and dismiss it before anything goes too far.

If you do this to every girl that you work with, take it to the point where they become uncomfortable or repulsed, you are eventually gonna get a reputation as a creepy guy.

In the final analysis, some sort of test has to be made in order to determine interest level, including kino, and to assume that 'I have no game, everyone is going to think I'm creepy' is toxic and not really helpful since calculated risk and judgement is more at play here.

There are much easier ways to find out what girls in the office are attracted to you than by eliminating them one-by-one with uncomfortable physical advances. Here are some signs:

1. She always comes around and makes a point to talk to you, especially when she has no real reason to come talk to you.
2. Heavy eye contact, possibly sexual "bedroom eyes"
3. Workplace gossip, you hear that she's asking people in your department if you have a girlfriend, etc.

This is just some friendly advice, but if you care about your job and your reputation, do NOT go through with this plan.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

If you do this to every girl that you work with, take it to the point where they become uncomfortable or repulsed, you are eventually gonna get a reputation as a creepy guy.

But that's just the point, where did I say that I'm doing this with EVERY girl I'm working with. What I'm talking about is using instincts, taking calculated risks and judgement - which entails that not every girl I work with is going to be selected. Since I'm a kino-phobe already, I dont have enough nerve to do it on anyone only those I feel a good connection with.

In fact if that were the case, that would be an abrogation of judgement, and of course, if you dont have judgement, the best game in the world wont compensate for that.

There are much easier ways to find out what girls in the office are attracted to you than by eliminating them one-by-one with uncomfortable physical advances. Here are some signs:

1. She always comes around and makes a point to talk to you, especially when she has no real reason to come talk to you.
2. Heavy eye contact, possibly sexual "bedroom eyes"
3. Workplace gossip, you hear that she's asking people in your department if you have a girlfriend, etc.

I think you should go on DJ techniques and read the KINO thread. KINO can build or creates interest levels. The trick is, if people want more kino and resist, then you automatically stop - while their interest level is going up in some push-pull method. It could be done on people that you already know for practise, or that you feel comfortable doing it on. I never said anyone.

What you are talking about is not proactive at all and if you have to wait for such IOI signals to act on someone, then you dont need any game at all, or any suavy.

This is just some friendly advice, but if you care about your job and your reputation, do NOT go through with this plan.

Well, you are the only person responding to this thread so I'll give you that, but I dont think you understand the full grasp of the plan or what's going on.

First of all, I'm an agent working at an office that's not compulsory to be in attendance so I'm self-employed so I'm not accountable to anyone for time.

Second of all, what's stated here is really a subconcious element - there is no 'real' goal to get someone to go into my office space and do something - but engaging in fluff talk, or going into someone's space while doing so is totally harmless.

Sigh. Original post is edited.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

To be very selective with targets will entail that I practise, if any at all, with people who have actually either obviously interested, or who have actually kinoed with me at the past.

It's easier to test the waters of interest by asking someone out and seeing how they react, or if they are kinoing me in the first place. I think there is a time and place for everything - but dont intend to think about doing this stuff indiscriminately.

Everybody I kino, must for the record, have been at least asked out first before this is attempted. It is calculated, that as compensatory behaviour kino may actually be encouraged or more tolerated by some women if a date can not be arranged.

Anyway, I do have a gf - so I'm not intending to go very far with this. Just want to appear more friendly or have a friendlier image out there that's all.

 

[Sir Juanalot]

Next Luke Skywalker post.

How i kino'd myself into unemployment - please advise. :crackup:

 

[Luke Skywalker]

An Asian girl that I went out with on Buffet came into my office cubicle today, I attempted to kino her by touching her arm, and afterwards she shook hands and promised to take me out for lunch sometime after tommorow regardless of how the deal goes. Something held me back from leaning towards her and kissing her or hugging her up.

My office was a mess. She was partially inside. She suggested working together in my office at some point but it was not pursued. She has not verbally said 'LJBF', and I'm not sure how to stucture this. It seemed she may have hugged me or gone further if I really pursued it - but today, and inside my office -- nah, not possible, I'm a 31 y/o virgin.

I mean, imagine me asking her inside for a moment to talk about something personal, see if anyone's outside, tell her to come inside, and start kino-ing her and some fluff talk -- maybe I should have an extra chair in my office or something - but I think there is potential with her - the office is a good prop in some sence.

But how do I let my interest known without overwhelming her - I can say, btwy, can I do you doggie-style here and have a 5 minute quickie with you - that wouldn't work -- need to have suave -- I dont know what to do.
I'll probalby see her again tommorow or sometime soon this week, she seems friendly and single. What should I do? Is there a real chance here of getting laid, or am I just mentally masturbating here on something that's probably just a LJBF?

 

[Desdinova]

You're just begging for a sexual harrassment suit against you, you knob.


But that's the whole point of gradual escalation.

The point is to get a sexual harassment suit filed against you?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

People have discussed sexual harassment issues on here. First of all, I'm in Canada, not the States, so I dont have a suit to worry about, I have a criminal misdemeanor charge to worry about which could impede my ability to maintain my license, plus the threat of going on probation, paying a fine or ending up in a jail for a short period.

However, you'd have to be extremely paranoid and apprehensious to believe that every friendly woman (some of whom is engaging in light kino themselves) is going to turn Dr. Jekel and Mr. Hyde and just go psycho, take a case through all legal challenges and kick me off the job after she has consented to a series of kino escalations and appears to be ok with it.

I've helped this girl with a deal and have provided some support for her first deal and being with her at the office, now she wants to take me out for lunch - now, what is it in here - no real advice of how to work this - guess I'll have to figure this out on my own.

Anway, I'm struggling to touch a woman on the arm, and hesitating to hug her when she appears she's going to reciprocate, I've never groped anyone before and wouldn't have the nerve to do it here.

 

[Desdinova]

Why can't you practice Kino on all the women you're supposedly dating? Using your workplace to practice your game is inappropriate. Did I tell you about the married guy in my workplace who was fvcking the secretary and the accountant? The accountant got pregnant, his wife was phoning and yelling at the secretary, and all three of them don't work there anymore.

Don't stick your d1nk in the company ink. If you really feel need to practice your game at work because it's more comfortable, you should go back to square one and practice your social skills instead.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

So, I'm not married, and thus I wont have any wife calling and yelling at anyone on the phone. If that guy's wife called someone and started yelling at the phone and word got around, then sure he took a risk there by having unprotected sex or sex with someone that is not on birth control.

Nobody told that guy to get anyone pregnant - and to get someone pregnant, guaranteed he had no condom on. It goes without saying, condoms should be worn when having sex - and perhaps I should buy some or shelve these fantasies.

But I cant see myself really going that far though - it's totally out of character and I am seeing someone right now anyway so this is really not necessary. You are right, should forget about this and just focus on OUTSIDE the office.

The worst I did was view porn in November inside my office (which was shared but done when nobody was looking) on my DVD player - so let's leave that in history.

 

[anbesolrox]

Speaking as a professional, let me tell you this:

DO NOT SH!T WHERE YOU EAT!

Let's say, one of these things work out and you actually pick up a girl. Do you think you'll be able to maintain ANY level of discretion? She's going to tell her friends, and eventually the whole office will know. You might come out of it unscathed (let's say your gf never finds out, and all the guys in the office think you're a stud), but she most likely won't. Women that get in relationships with people they work with often get screwed (the bad way) at work when the relationship ends.

This is one of the stupidest, most immature, and unprofessional ideas I've ever heard.

 

[Desdinova]

perhaps I should buy some or shelve these fantasies

Fantasies are those who don't have control of their reality.

 

[2Cool]

I ordinarily would provide some level headed wisdom here, but... I want to read about how this turns out. If he is willing to jeopardize his career, and possibly get into legal entanglements, who are we to criticize. After all, more than one person has already warned against the experiment.

Proceed with all deliberate speed and report back with all the details. It's your life to risk.

 

[Flabbergasped?]

I thought this was a joke at first, but it isn't.

Why does it make any sense to do it in the office? I mean, if you want to bang a co-worker, at least threaten your job security at her place or yours after some coffee, not in your office.

Are you trolling or something?

 

[Docs]

Yeah, but say....this girl was in your office.
http://pix.hotornot.com/pics/H8/HR/HU/KE/A8EYR8FXGVU.jpg

I think that's a pretty damn good incentive.

 

[backbreaker]

don't dip your pen in company ink

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Engaged in kino with an older woman with a nice a$$ - touched her on the shoulder for about a second while I was passing, and that caught her attention and I said 'hi' and she said 'hi' back in a friendly tone. She also looked at me when I got up from my desk.

 

[2Cool]

I've been doing a lot more kinoing and the response has been good to great. knowing when to do so is the trick. The physical touch, a gentle touch or slight grab of the arm will get them moving in your direction.