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I can't flirt with women in the company of my friends. I end up copying my friends' kino and flirting styles since I've got none of my own. Advice on this site is VERY generic and can spin off into different tangents. I'm terribly unimaginative when it comes to these things.

How can I develop my own style?
 

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i agree. Any ideas to build on would be sweet. I watch some friends from my latest class and man are they good. (touch almost anywhere with no resistance) but they are also the fun, funny, C&F type that have no end to their entertainment. (I on the otherhand seam to always be tired so i keep quiet. which I think = no attraction over the next guy.) So i need more sleep and game but it is hard going.
 
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Well, there are definately places that are better to touch than others. ie, shoulder, back, arms, hands are good places. The important thing to remember is that it is a natural extention of your gestures (eg directing someone in a direction - hand on back pushing in direction with other hand pointing...haha just don't push too hard). If you don't know the person that well you'd use less kino. It you lean into their personal space and they lean back then they may not be a touchy feely person...etc... Just observe how the pro's do it and it will become more natural, you won't even think about it.
 
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I just need more pros to watch and learn from. Can you just walk up to a guy that you can tell has it down pat and ask for advice/guidance lol..
 
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