"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kino & Flirting ideas?

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I can't flirt with women in the company of my friends. I end up copying my friends' kino and flirting styles since I've got none of my own. Advice on this site is VERY generic and can spin off into different tangents. I'm terribly unimaginative when it comes to these things.

How can I develop my own style?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i agree. Any ideas to build on would be sweet. I watch some friends from my latest class and man are they good. (touch almost anywhere with no resistance) but they are also the fun, funny, C&F type that have no end to their entertainment. (I on the otherhand seam to always be tired so i keep quiet. which I think = no attraction over the next guy.) So i need more sleep and game but it is hard going.
 
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Well, there are definately places that are better to touch than others. ie, shoulder, back, arms, hands are good places. The important thing to remember is that it is a natural extention of your gestures (eg directing someone in a direction - hand on back pushing in direction with other hand pointing...haha just don't push too hard). If you don't know the person that well you'd use less kino. It you lean into their personal space and they lean back then they may not be a touchy feely person...etc... Just observe how the pro's do it and it will become more natural, you won't even think about it.
 
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I just need more pros to watch and learn from. Can you just walk up to a guy that you can tell has it down pat and ask for advice/guidance lol..
 
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