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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kino escalation problems

Maxwell

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I'm stuck at a point where I can pull off mild KINO (touching the arm, shoulder, hands) I even got as far as touching the hair and waist, but there seems to be a kind of "glass ceiling" in effect.
Whenever I try to move passed this point, like touching her leg, or going for the kiss, the girl disengages. At first I assumed I took it too fast, and tried varying my escalation speed, but whenever I try waiting longer, they lose interest.

Is there some key point I am missing? Am I doing the order of "touch areas" wrong, or is it a numbers thing and I just need to keep trying?

I'm at University, so there's parties all the time, lots of opportunities, and the girls outnumber the guys 2:1, yet I'm the only guy in my dorm who's not pulling ***** with ease. Doesn't help that I am terrified of getting a chick pregnant or getting an STD, and I'm still getting over the trauma of my last GF, who turned out to be a stalker-esque nutcase...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Four_Aces

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If you're running into these issues with every single Keno escalation scenerio, then I'd suggest stepping back and looking broadly at who you are/how you present yourself. Keno doesn't work all the time, but a 100 percent failure rate is NOT normal.

Are you making sure that before you escalate into Tier 2 of Keno, you've isolated your target away from the group? They'll be reluctant to escalate further unless you're both in a semi-private location.
 

Maxwell

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Four_Aces said:
Are you making sure that before you escalate into Tier 2 of Keno, you've isolated your target away from the group? They'll be reluctant to escalate further unless you're both in a semi-private location.
That's probably a main factor, as about 1/3 of the time, yeah, I neglected to isolate.
 
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