Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kino escalation problems

Maxwell

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I'm stuck at a point where I can pull off mild KINO (touching the arm, shoulder, hands) I even got as far as touching the hair and waist, but there seems to be a kind of "glass ceiling" in effect.
Whenever I try to move passed this point, like touching her leg, or going for the kiss, the girl disengages. At first I assumed I took it too fast, and tried varying my escalation speed, but whenever I try waiting longer, they lose interest.

Is there some key point I am missing? Am I doing the order of "touch areas" wrong, or is it a numbers thing and I just need to keep trying?

I'm at University, so there's parties all the time, lots of opportunities, and the girls outnumber the guys 2:1, yet I'm the only guy in my dorm who's not pulling ***** with ease. Doesn't help that I am terrified of getting a chick pregnant or getting an STD, and I'm still getting over the trauma of my last GF, who turned out to be a stalker-esque nutcase...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Four_Aces

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If you're running into these issues with every single Keno escalation scenerio, then I'd suggest stepping back and looking broadly at who you are/how you present yourself. Keno doesn't work all the time, but a 100 percent failure rate is NOT normal.

Are you making sure that before you escalate into Tier 2 of Keno, you've isolated your target away from the group? They'll be reluctant to escalate further unless you're both in a semi-private location.
 

Maxwell

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Four_Aces said:
Are you making sure that before you escalate into Tier 2 of Keno, you've isolated your target away from the group? They'll be reluctant to escalate further unless you're both in a semi-private location.
That's probably a main factor, as about 1/3 of the time, yeah, I neglected to isolate.
 
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