"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kino Escalation/Kiss close?

HighResurrection

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Do you ever step back from a girl. Someone who's knowledgeable in the game told me you never step back. On youtube This dating guru steps back from a girl who was about to walk away.

Also aren't you suppose to create sexual tension then chill for bit then create more, would you step away or maintaining your distance?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thevilittletroll

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i think what you are referring to is called a "roll off". right after you do your inital approach you sort of turn you back like you are starting to walk away, then come back in to add something to the conversation. this gives the illusion that you have the willingness to walk away from a conversation that is still on a high point. it shows confidence, and that you have an abundance of women in your life. but its also a technique thats used mostly in indirect game....its a good move i'd recommend it, try it out. i've had girls grab me by the arm and pull me back into the conversation, huge IOI.
 

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I had a date where all I did was nothing, then at the end of a movie i went for the make out afterl ike 20 seconds of hand-holidng , andjust made out with the bish. was good as., tried to go for feel up and more but first dates? or sometihng i duno
 

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Since part of the game is push and pull. What I am asking is what does that look like in terms of kino. What i'm asking is during kino escalation do you every increase your distance when you stop doing kino (kino take away) or do you just maintain your closeness.
 

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leaving for a little while can always increase the sexual tension. Like making a girl wait while you get a drink at the bar. It's exciting to wonder whether she's going to stay there or move somewhere else. Sometime's i'll touch them and say 'stay here' while i get a drink. It's worked before.

a word of warning though: Some girls won't like it if you're prioritised with your beer or your friends, they might think you don't like them and just wander off.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scrat said:
I had a date where all I did was nothing, then at the end of a movie i went for the make out afterl ike 20 seconds of hand-holidng , andjust made out with the bish. was good as., tried to go for feel up and more but first dates? or sometihng i duno

It all depends how comfortable the girl is and what type of personality she has.

I've gone out with chicks on the first date, i made a joke about something and then love tapped her as a joke for ''mis behaving". Mind you the girls are usually outgoing and is open to new things (i think that translates to sl*t haha). Some may be offended, it all depends on the comfort you've built with eachother. Whatever you do, don't come off as serious if you grab her and she isn't comfortable with it.

Edit:maybe i shouldn't give advice haha but i'll leave it there for criticism.
 

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Chamber36 said:
leaving for a little while can always increase the sexual tension. Like making a girl wait while you get a drink at the bar. It's exciting to wonder whether she's going to stay there or move somewhere else. Sometime's i'll touch them and say 'stay here' while i get a drink. It's worked before.

a word of warning though: Some girls won't like it if you're prioritised with your beer or your friends, they might think you don't like them and just wander off.
something to add that i got off this site, is, if you've built rapport, as you're about to leave, barely lick your finger and then slightly smear your finger on her skin and say "you're mine, stay here i'm getting a drink". It's always worked and made them laugh
 
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