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AmsterdamAssassin

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I'd like to open a thread where members can speak about kink / fetish issues, both for themselves or their partners.
 

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Nice idea for a thread.

I have a secret kink of wanting to get r*ped by a roving gang of 20 year old cheerleaders (biological female type) in a locker room.
 

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are you actually into Shibari? Any resources for better learning about it?
 

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From 1992 onward, I trained in Hojōjutsu (see the link in my sig) as part of my training in the koryu bujutsu, and I practiced the capture rope on my lovers, who told me that I was doing (some form of) shibari. So in 1999 I found out that shibari was based on Hojōjutsu and I followed courses in shibari. I sometimes give workshops in rope bondage basics and safety.
 

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Kink is my niche, I don't date non-kinky women.
 

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I’m not really into kink. But all my kinks I’ve lived already. Mostly just girls who aim to please and don’t want or need to get off but are there for my pleasure only.
 

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are you actually into Shibari? Any resources for better learning about it?
There are websites that show step-by-step shibari, but I wouldn't try that if you haven't followed at least a course in shibari basics and safety.
 

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Just like "Impact Play", you want to know the difference in handling a belt, a riding crop, a whip, a flogger and a cane.
 

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Be careful, i got a warning for creating a similar thread. I'm scared to share incase i get another warning.
 

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the issue with that thread was about the graphic description of using force and borderline violence. Particularly without any sort of disclaimer about consent and instead just a bolded line at the bottom saying "This is how women want to be treated". We do not allow any content that condones the use of force/violence or may be construed to condone such actions.
 

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Particularly without any sort of disclaimer about consent
OK, let me post this here:
Bondage / Kink is only legal if you have consent.
In the scene, two sorts of consent and safety acronyms can be found:

Safe Sane Consensual (SSC)

Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)

Within the Japanese bondage scene there's the concept of 'shinrai', which means 'trust' but like most Japanese words it covers a plethora of terms. Shinrai means a mutual trust where the rope model puts her trust in the rigger not to harm or cross boundaries, and the rigger does their utmost to be worthy of that trust.

SSC / RACK also go for all the other 'play sessions' whether it's impact play or pony play or breath play.

Any scenario or session I describe in this thread (or elsewhere, for that matter) is a consensual kink scene between voluntary willing partners.

Does that cover the 'disclaimer'?

Some of the things I do would be considered (domestic) abuse if they were not consensual. That's why I only play with consent.
 

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Just like "Impact Play", you want to know the difference in handling a belt, a riding crop, a whip, a flogger and a cane.
I've already done belt, paddle and flogger. But really interested in the other.

The flogger is much more popular than you'd expect.

I've already done the safety stuff for shibari. No problems there. It's probably just an experience thing. I just struggle to keep the whole thing tight without it being too tight.

What kind of rope do you use?
 
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