"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kinda Pissed off, Severe Dandruff

Aragon034

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i was supposed to meet up with a bunch of people from another forum tonight at a nice restaurant to greet another friend of ours coming from out of the country.

Long story short, i get there 15 mins late due to traffic, and out of the 8 people supposed to be there, only one chick showed up. And not even the guy we're supposed to be greeting showed.

Turns out he got delayed in Montreal, good excuse, but WTF happened to the other 5 people?

Flaked.

Every.Single.God.Damned.One.Of.Them.

Is it wrong of me to expect people to show up when they say they will? Especially if it's a group social occasion?

If i get confirmation that "Yes i'll be there" i'm trusting you to show up. If you don't, then **** off, get the hell out of my way and don't try and apologize unless you have a DAMNED good reason. I didn't even want to go, i'm busy with school dammit, but i promised and i went.

The night wasn't a total waste, i ended up hanging out with this chick chatting and eventually getting her #. But still...

I'm used to girls flaking for whatever reason, but how the **** does 2 other girls and 3 guys flake? That's just ludicrous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FLAKE RATIO IS ABOUT 3:1...........IF YOU with phonies they just make small talk for the sake of conversation like movie stars way "lets do lunch soon"

They really dont mean it...........
 

Desert Fox

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I thought I could get some tips here about my severe dandruff, but whatevs.

NIce story anyways...dependable people are few in this world.
 
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