"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kinda Pissed off, Severe Dandruff

Aragon034

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i was supposed to meet up with a bunch of people from another forum tonight at a nice restaurant to greet another friend of ours coming from out of the country.

Long story short, i get there 15 mins late due to traffic, and out of the 8 people supposed to be there, only one chick showed up. And not even the guy we're supposed to be greeting showed.

Turns out he got delayed in Montreal, good excuse, but WTF happened to the other 5 people?

Flaked.

Every.Single.God.Damned.One.Of.Them.

Is it wrong of me to expect people to show up when they say they will? Especially if it's a group social occasion?

If i get confirmation that "Yes i'll be there" i'm trusting you to show up. If you don't, then **** off, get the hell out of my way and don't try and apologize unless you have a DAMNED good reason. I didn't even want to go, i'm busy with school dammit, but i promised and i went.

The night wasn't a total waste, i ended up hanging out with this chick chatting and eventually getting her #. But still...

I'm used to girls flaking for whatever reason, but how the **** does 2 other girls and 3 guys flake? That's just ludicrous.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FLAKE RATIO IS ABOUT 3:1...........IF YOU with phonies they just make small talk for the sake of conversation like movie stars way "lets do lunch soon"

They really dont mean it...........
 

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I thought I could get some tips here about my severe dandruff, but whatevs.

NIce story anyways...dependable people are few in this world.
 
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