"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kinda moving!

marqZAL

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I am doing one of clincal rotations for school out of town, ill be staying at the hospital 3 days a week. So, i took a add out on match.com, and have been emailing back and forth for 2 weeks now. Last night I called her, after she left her number, i kept it short because I was tired. Think I should call her tonight? How long should I wait to call back????? I wont be in town til next sunday, when I told her I would like to meet her last night, and she said shed like to meet me, also.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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call her and tell her youd like to meet her when you get back to town.
 

marqZAL

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penkitten said:
call her and tell her youd like to meet her when you get back to town.
Sorry, i told her that last night and she said she wanted to meet also, thats why I was asking do you think I should call her tonight?
 
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