I am doing one of clincal rotations for school out of town, ill be staying at the hospital 3 days a week. So, i took a add out on match.com, and have been emailing back and forth for 2 weeks now. Last night I called her, after she left her number, i kept it short because I was tired. Think I should call her tonight? How long should I wait to call back????? I wont be in town til next sunday, when I told her I would like to meet her last night, and she said shed like to meet me, also.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kinda moving!
- Thread starter marqZAL
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
call her and tell her youd like to meet her when you get back to town.