I am doing one of clincal rotations for school out of town, ill be staying at the hospital 3 days a week. So, i took a add out on match.com, and have been emailing back and forth for 2 weeks now. Last night I called her, after she left her number, i kept it short because I was tired. Think I should call her tonight? How long should I wait to call back????? I wont be in town til next sunday, when I told her I would like to meet her last night, and she said shed like to meet me, also.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kinda moving!
- Thread starter marqZAL
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
call her and tell her youd like to meet her when you get back to town.