"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kinda Messed this One up Last Night

hondo928

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So I was throwing a birthday party last night, and my friend brings her very cute friend along probably about a 7 or 8, not a big deal, I was talking to her and she was clearly interested, I walked away a few times and she kept coming back, so I start dancing with her....then I spill my beer on her, she kinda joked with me about it...then I did it again, so this time I put it down, and I went to ask her something later and accidentally spilled more on her. Yea, not very suave. And she yelled at me which I kinda understand, well then my friend leaves the party to talk to her bf or whatever and is upset or something and so her friend follows her out, didn't get her number or anything. It's not a big deal but I'm sure I'll see her again if I want to just through my friend.

I'm sure she's very used to guys hitting on her and the CF routine was working pretty well, until I spilled the beer on her 3 times, should I wait a few days and friend her on FB and send her a message poking fun at something she did earlier, and just apologize for spilling the beer on her, or just not worry about. It's not a big deal if nothing happens, but it seems like pretty easy pickings as long as I don't do anything stupid, or become a pu$$y. Thoughts, also how do you recover from doing something as dumb as I did without losing too much face?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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drtk

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hondo928 said:
Not a big deal
There you have your answer. No biggie, keep improving because there's no valid reason to care about what other people think of you. :yes:
 
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