"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kinda Messed this One up Last Night

hondo928

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So I was throwing a birthday party last night, and my friend brings her very cute friend along probably about a 7 or 8, not a big deal, I was talking to her and she was clearly interested, I walked away a few times and she kept coming back, so I start dancing with her....then I spill my beer on her, she kinda joked with me about it...then I did it again, so this time I put it down, and I went to ask her something later and accidentally spilled more on her. Yea, not very suave. And she yelled at me which I kinda understand, well then my friend leaves the party to talk to her bf or whatever and is upset or something and so her friend follows her out, didn't get her number or anything. It's not a big deal but I'm sure I'll see her again if I want to just through my friend.

I'm sure she's very used to guys hitting on her and the CF routine was working pretty well, until I spilled the beer on her 3 times, should I wait a few days and friend her on FB and send her a message poking fun at something she did earlier, and just apologize for spilling the beer on her, or just not worry about. It's not a big deal if nothing happens, but it seems like pretty easy pickings as long as I don't do anything stupid, or become a pu$$y. Thoughts, also how do you recover from doing something as dumb as I did without losing too much face?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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drtk

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hondo928 said:
Not a big deal
There you have your answer. No biggie, keep improving because there's no valid reason to care about what other people think of you. :yes:
 
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